Deciding what to do about an unplanned pregnancy is a profound choice, and no one should pressure you into one you’re not comfortable with. If you’re feeling unsure about your decision, it’s important to recognize the warning signs of coercion and take steps to protect your right to make a choice that is truly yours.
Here are six common signs that you may be experiencing pressure to have an abortion:
1. Someone is Making You Feel Guilty
If a partner, family member, or friend is telling you that having a baby will ruin your life, career, or relationships, they may be trying to manipulate your emotions rather than support your decision. Guilt should never be a driving force in your choice.
2. You Feel Rushed to Decide
A pregnancy decision takes time and careful consideration. If someone is pushing you to act quickly, making you feel like abortion is your only option, or refusing to give you space to think, this is a red flag. You have time to explore all of your options.
3. You’re Being Threatened or Intimidated
If someone is threatening to leave you, take away financial support, or harm you emotionally or physically unless you have an abortion, this is serious. No one has the right to force you into a decision through fear or intimidation.
4. Your Partner is Withholding Support
A supportive partner should listen to your concerns and respect your feelings. If they refuse to discuss other options or tell you they “won’t be there” unless you choose abortion, they are not supporting you; they are controlling you.
5. You Are Being Denied Information on Other Options
Some people may push abortion by refusing to discuss parenting or adoption as viable choices. You deserve access to all information to make an informed decision that aligns with your values.
6. You Feel Like You Have No Other Choice
If it feels like abortion is being treated as the only possible option, take a step back. Your decision should be made out of clarity, not fear.
You Have Options
If you feel like you’re being pressured into an abortion decision, Ventura County Pregnancy Center is here for you. We offer free pregnancy services so you can explore all of your options in a safe, supportive, and judgment-free space.
Schedule an appointment today. You deserve to make a decision that is truly yours.